I think you are very likely to get differing answers on this from different people.
At our house we have one frying pan and one saucepan that are dedicated to wheaty items exclusively. Everything else is shared. Other family members eat bread and dumplings and such without affecting me.
I've never thought about any dangers from shared plasticware, and I've been GF for almost ten years now. I'm sure that it is theoretically possible that a minute amount of gluten could adhere to a piece of tupperware, but I'm inclined to believe that if it is too small to be seen with the eye then it is either not there or it does not matter.
But you really have 2 needs here, first you need to be safe from gluten, and second you need to feel that you are safe from gluten. These are both valid and legitimate concerns. Food is supposed to be pleasant, and eating is supposed to be an emotionally positive experience.
So I think it would be reasonable for you to mark certain pieces of tupperware as GF with a magic marker and slap anybody that puts pasta in them. It might not be an absolute requirement from a scientific perspective, but your peace of mind is a necessity.
I hope this answer helps
